Michael J. Fox, the Eternal Optimist
I watched the Michael J. Fox documentary on TV, Adventures of the Eternal Optimist. Mr. Fox describes his battle with Parkinson’s Disease, and wonders why he is still able to be optimistic about life. It was definitely interesting to see a man who has not let PD slow him down too much. He’s also written a book, traveled the world, raised a large family, and stayed happily married.
This raises the question: why is it that people who are perfectly healthy unable to be optimistic? Michael J. Fox also wonders why this is. Is it genetic? Are people just biologically programmed to be positive or negative?
As a lifelong pessimist myself, I also have to wonder why this is. Some days it seems IMPOSSIBLE to think positively, and I am certain that pessimism gets stronger as one gets older. That is why it is important to change this HABIT as soon as you are aware that you have it.
I am not having a good day today. I am feeling negative and pessimistic and I have done nothing worthwhile today. The result of this is that I feel guilty, and guilt is negative, and it’s a whole nasty loop that feeds on itself. Perhaps optimism is the same, but I wouldn’t know.
Maybe I should give a Michael J. Fox a call…
***The purpose of this blog is to learn how to be happy and successful***
great column Tim
Great Post !
It is truly amazing that some people with such insurmountable afflictions can somehow overcome them, if only in their minds. If it is genetic that we are pre-disposed to pessimism or optimism then changes to behavior should be implemented to reverse certain habits or moods. Whether it be by doing something good for someone else or treating yourself to something special once in a while.
By sharing your life with someone else a purpose can be found, and that can be with your existing family that love you and brought you into this world or by sharing your life with a non family member. This includes animals as well. Doing things for others is a fulfilling existance
Ross
Great Post !
It is truly amazing that some people with such insurmountable afflictions can somehow overcome them, if only in their minds. If it is genetic that we are pre-disposed to pessimism or optimism then changes to behavior should be implemented to reverse certain habits or moods. Whether it be by doing something good for someone else or treating yourself to something special once in a while.
By sharing your life with someone else a purpose can be found, and that can be with your existing family that love you and brought you into this world or by sharing your life with a non family member. This includes animals as well. Doing things for others is a fulfilling existance
Ross…